Saturday, January 23, 2010

How come alot of girls want to wait till they get married?

I mean us guys dont at all. But alot of girls say, ';I want to wait till im married'; why is this?How come alot of girls want to wait till they get married?
Of course you don't at all. you are not the ones who can get pregnant, whose whole future is on that thin line. Don't you understand that a good future is more important than a few minutes of pleasure. but, STDs and pregnancy is only where it begins! what about having respect for yourself? what about knowing that your relationship's foundation is built on really loving the inside of that person and not just the physical attraction? what about not wanting to take a chance on ';condoms only work 85% of the time';? (that is 3 girls in every 20 that will have something go wrong.) what about saving yourself for that special one person? what about God, if you are religious? what about not just giving it up to anyone? giving something that special up to someone you might not even be with for more than a few months? what about wanting your future marriage to not end in a divorce? (studies show that waiting means a better marriage, and less chance of divorce). what about all that? ';all that'; is why we want to wait. we aren't just saying it to say it. and i think any girl, and actually even any girl OR guy with a good-amount of self-respect and moral values would agree. to me, ';all that'; is worth waiting for, worth giving up a small amount of pleasure for. :)How come alot of girls want to wait till they get married?
What state or nation do you live in? Where I live, I feel like I'm the only girl who wants to remain a virgin until marriage. Most others my age, male and female are always talking about how much they party and have sex (although some I'm sure is fabricated, there is usually a kernel of truth in there), while I feel as if I am alone in wanting to remain a virgin until I am married.





Also, there are a lot of guys who want to remain virgins until marriage.
Because, our virginity is something we can't just get back, and we want to make sure we want to give it to someone we really love.





And if we're married, the guy will be happy we're pregnant usually, if not, then he'll usually be like ';OHSHI- I'm not helping you know';








There's also the double standard, girls will look like sluts if they do it, while the guy has it like a badge of honor
Because they actually PRACTICE their religion and don't want to be committing fornication.


Because they're SMART.


Because they want to get an education before a baby.


Because they want to make sure that the guy is not just out for sex.


Because girls are often still regarded as sluts if they get pregnant, even though the guy is often regarded as heroic for getting a girl pregnant.


Because birth control doesn't always work.


Because they know who's going to end up raising the baby!
How do you know guys don't? Guys talk a lot about sex, but that doesn't mean they're actually having it. Most of it is just lies that they tell to be considered cool. There are plenty of guys waiting for marriage, trust me.


In our (sexist) society, it's not considered cool for girls to have sex or talk about sex as much as guys. So they don't. That doesn't mean they're not having sex, and it doesn't mean they're waiting for marriage. But girls are more willing to admit they are waiting for marriage, because that's what is accepted by society.
';us guys'; dont put me in that equation then, im a guy, and personally, i am waiting till marrage,





but i, and i know, people, want to wait, for a variety of reasons, if you have sex beforehand, the relationship, could easily just become based on that, and loose all feeling, or just have the relationship based on intercourse.
because all of the above


and most guys want to rush into it but if you guys actually took the time to get to know the girl you could possibly knock up or pass stds to then maybe they wouldnt think you were just out for one thing and then never talk to them again.. but thats just a guess.
Because maybe they dont like it when certain guys look at them like their whores or disgusting ive met guys and everythings fine and once they find out im not a virgin they either try to get in my pants cuz they think im going to sleep with them just because ive had sex before or they look at me like they are disgusted at me because im not a virgin
im not necessarily waiting until marriage, im just waiting for the right guy.....if i end up waiting until my wedding night, then it will be special, but if not it will be just as special in my opinion becasue it will be with the right guy.
Because some girls can control their hormones. Also it can be seen as a religious decision.





Anyhow, there are guys who do wait until marriage and some girls who don't.
Some guys wait until marriage. Some guys don't. Some girls wait until marriage. Some girls don't. Why does it bother you? Respect their beliefs.
many reasons,1) Religion christians believe that you should wait till marriage.


2) What if she got pregnant?


My Main two reasons
You want to know why? Because they thought ';Ewww Staten Island Ferry is such a disgusting sexist guy so let's all wait until marriage.';
I agree with the first answer. Almost all girls I know are out having sex right now and i'm 16.

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