Why do married men insist in watching girls dancing in thongs on youtube? What is it they need?

My husband watches porn at times and when I blocked the TV so he couldn't watch it no more, he goes on the computer and watches it there. I've recently caught him watching girls through youtube, dancing in thongs or skirts. What is it men need or is that just a necesity they have?? This curiosity is killing me someone please help.


What should I do?Why do married men insist in watching girls dancing in thongs on youtube? What is it they need?
Dear Miss,


It is well known and supported by tests, that men are very visual in sexuality. That is why there is incredible amounts of money spent on pornography by men. Research shows that most men are really turned on by how the porn stars act towards the men, not so much their body. As for T-bones and french cut undies, they hide just enough to make us crazy with curiousity. Also, such garments tend to accentuate the female form and are a big turn on. They define the hips and such, while making us wonder whats underneath. I will take a skimpy bikini on a lady over a total nude anytime. Knowing this, perhaps you could take a constructive approach. Watch with him and ask him what he likes. Perhaps seduce him with your own lingerie-something new and daring. I know I would respond pretty quick to any woman who cares to take the time finding out what I like. Then you can teach him a little more of what you like and you can make trade offs. Unless porn is his life, I think you can do well with some of these answers here and your own experimentation. Good Luck. BrianWhy do married men insist in watching girls dancing in thongs on youtube? What is it they need?
Not all married men do that. There is nothing wrong in watching porn but when is in excess or is constantly then there is a problem. 1) The problem this is causing you 2) It is used as a way to avoid reality or release stress 3) It is used to fill a void. The more you show him you dont like it, the more he is going to do it even if he has to do it secretly. If he is doing it occasionally I would not worry, he could be doing it just to get ready for you. But if its an addiction then you need to talk to him and let him know is getting to be annoying and he need to find help or therapy or something of the like.
you should talk to him about it if it bothers you, going behind your loved ones back is no way to make a marriage better. If you really don't feel comfortable with him watching it he should be listening to you.


I don't think ';all'; men need it. My husband never watches porn, and if it happens we are watching it together. My husband says he couldn't live with himself keeping a secret from me





I know you probably don't want to hear what i'm saying but it's 100% true that porn is only a desire/fantasy and nothing more. Why don't you try watching it with him? If you are ok with that
That's emotional cheating in my eyes! I would be furious to think what he is thinking while making love to you! I would talk to him and question him about it. If you're not already, do whatever you can do to be sexy for him...yes, men need more stimuli...but that is NO excuse for going outside of you to do it! YOU are his mate, YOU are supposed to be his number one, YOU should be the only one he should have eyes for! He is a coward for not talking to you about his needs first before going elsewhere for his cheap disgusting jollies!...obviously he has more than what you think. Get it out of him, accomodate whenever reasonably possible...and if he still does it...out the door with him! Sure, it's normal to masterbate when the other isn't available, but it is NOT normal for him to be thinking of other woman when he should have enough to fantasize about with you! The one he supposedly loves? Find out quick where his twisted thoughts are before it goes beyond this!
there is nothing you could or should do. why this such a problem for you, what is wrong with it? men are very visual people and we like to see other nude woman dancing. I would suggest, if you have a real problem with it talk to him about it but try to block the TV or internet. that will cause more of a problem. maybe you can suggest dancing for him. keep in mind that it most likely does not have anything to do with you or that you are doing something wrong. men just like it.
Porn is a want, not a need. If you're not okay with it then that makes it disrespectful.





My husband doesn't watch porn or anything inappropriate on youtube.





Why don't you let him catch you watching male strippers on youtube? I've never looked, but I'm sure there's a bit of everything on there.
bc men are so visual!!! Its not fair to you bc he doesnt realize how he's prolly making you feel like somethings wrong w/ you...always remember theres nothing wrong w/ you. Its disrespectful when you are married to continue wanting to see other women in that way. Talk to him, tell him how it makes you feel....maybe you can buy a few sexy little outfiits and initiate sex w/ him out of the blue! If that doesnt work, pay him back by constantly checking out buff men and make him feel like you do now!! Just dont let yourself get resentful about it!!! good luck
You must be very, very young, and surely not married. It's normal male behavior. We've enjoyed porn since before the time of the Greek and Roman empires. The world hasn't fallen apart because of it, and marriage hasn't died out because we enjoy the sight of lissome young women.
not all married men watch porn on the tv or youtube etc. my husband doesn't, thank goodness. he doesn't like it.all's he wants is me and im always willing to satisfy him. i think that it is wrong that your husband does that. shame on him. hopefully you'll get a better answer. good luck.
Your husband does not equate to all men watching thongs on youtube. Sorry to tell you but not all men are the same. We aren't carbon copies of eachother contary to popular belief.





Porn is not a need, it's a desire. Never a need.
you can't generalise this statement...my hubby would never do such a thing...


someone like your husband is just very curious...he's looking for a change...
Start wearing thongs.
You blocked him from it ? hahahahaha! I love when women say stuff like that and then wonder why they get cheated on.
Deal with your own husband. What other married men do should not be your business.
Guys want to look at T%26amp;A that doesn't belong to their wife.





There, I said it.
Buy a thong...
My man doesn't. He doesn't even bother with youtube.
It means he needs to get laid. Sex is a human necessity and for men, sexual diversity and variety is just as important as frequency.
He doesn't have enough to do. You didn't get this problem when you could send the men out with spears to go catch the dinner!
cause we need to get off like 3 times a day.. and ur just not cutting it : )