Sunday, January 17, 2010

Why it is said that a women who is married will never stay in her fathers home after her marriage?

Why it is said that a women who is married will never stay in her fathers home after her marriage?What bad things will people say about her?Why it is said that a women who is married will never stay in her fathers home after her marriage?
Hi,in the past both of my married sisters have moved back home %26amp;


nothing was said.My mam %26amp; dad helped them out.Me %26amp; my husband have also had them live with us.Why it is said that a women who is married will never stay in her fathers home after her marriage?
There is no rule - in patriarchal societies this is so and matriarchal societies it is the other way round. You have not mentioned whether both stay at the girls fathers house or only the girl. That also will have different reactions. It is not people who cause problem, but the relatives. If any thing is done away from the societies customs, it is awkward and may require time to get settled, in the end it all works out.
After no longer living in my parent's home, I can't imagine ever wanting to live there again. i am an adult now and I make my own rules. I know that if I ever moved back home, no matter what age, my parents would try to enforce rules to live by which do not suit me. It just wouldn't work. Plus, my parents deserve a well earned break, they enjoy life now that us kids have all grown up and left home. I wouldn't want to take that well earned freedom away from them.
I have no idea. Who the hell says this???? It is absolute crap.


Most women do not stay in their father's house because when they marry they go to their own. And even if the couple stay in her father's home...who gives a rats? What bad things will people say? WHO CARES! No-one has any idea what other people do or don't suffer.





Perhaps people will say wonderful things about her and her husband. They may, after all, being looking after her ill father.
the bad things said about her is that she chose a worthless man who cannot take care of her, when you marry you are to start a life together by yourselves not with your parents, and your father most likely will not like the fact of you two having sex in the room next door to theirs
It is typically because she has her own home. If she is staying in her parents home without her husband people may question the stressfulness of their marriage. If the husband also lives there people may question their ability to provide for themselves.
Because she's mean and bitter about the fact that her man had sense enough to leave her. Most women take their divorces out on all men, so her pride and stubbornness will prevent her from wanting to go home.
Who says this nonsense? Why would any one say bad things about her for that? Where are you getting your information, dear? You need to check your source, into the booby hatch
The woman leaves her parents home because it is her new husbands job to look after her.
Because no man will be willing to live with his mother-in-law.
Coz she needs to GO and make her own life! ppl will say she married a useless man!

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