Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Would you accept a piece of jewelry from married boyfriend before breaking up?

The married man is going back to his wife because of the promise he made towards her when he got married. He's seriously willing to make things work and refuses to abandon her. The wife gave him an ultimatum and even though he still loves the other woman very much, he's forced to make a choice. However, he wants to give a ring to the woman he's seeing and who he claims to love the most as a token of their relationship. Other gifts have not been given and there was no sexual relationship, only emotional. Any comments?Would you accept a piece of jewelry from married boyfriend before breaking up?
Oh, darlin'.





People can get hung up. Plain and simple.





Often, the things that hang us up are things like gifts, exchanges, places, people etc.





Your friend needs to consider her heart first and foremost. If your friend is going to be in proximity to this man, she will eternally be at a risk of being taken by him again. The chance of this occurring increases exponentially if she accepts a gift from him.





Her best chance is to cut him out of her life. It's the roughest path, but the right choices are never the easy ones.





Men like the idea of being lusted after just as much as women, so if he is not receiving the attention he needs from his wife, he will most likely turn to your friend for that affection, while still not being willing to leave his wife, and dragging your friend through the mud. This will not benefit anyone, but him.





I hope that helps, but I'm not sure that there's a lot to be done to save your friend from some days of heartache. =(





On a brighter note, there are plenty of eligible men in the world, and some of us are privileged enough to be men of conviction, education and somewhat moderate affluence.Would you accept a piece of jewelry from married boyfriend before breaking up?
You should accept it if it's not too expensive. An inexpensive gift says that he wants you to have something meaningful to remember your relationship and his feelings for you. An expensive gift says that he wants to keep you on a hook. Then he can keep coming back when things get tough with his wife again.
No, better not accept as it will only reminds her of him. It would be easier for her to let go of him and the memories. And he is married and he should have spent the money on the wife.
This is a mind game and dumb at that
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