Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Getting married, have a tall bridesmaid who doesnt want to wear heels and the rest do? What to do?

Is there any shoes that look identical but one has a heel and the other are flats?Getting married, have a tall bridesmaid who doesnt want to wear heels and the rest do? What to do?
You can probably find a kitten heel for her that's in a similar style as the other girls. For example, these:





http://www.barratts.co.uk/wcsstore/Consu鈥?/a>


http://media.redgaloshes.com/sq/273/0121鈥?/a>





... is similar to this:


http://www.splendicity.com/files/101/200鈥?/a>





If your girls' dresses are floor-length, it will matter less. Even if they're not it's really not a big deal.Getting married, have a tall bridesmaid who doesnt want to wear heels and the rest do? What to do?
If they are wearing long dresses, no one will even see their feet to notice whether or not their shoes match.





And if your bridesmaids are wearing tea length or shorter dresses, then if they buy the dyable shoes and have them dyed in the same color, no one will notice that one has a heel and the other one doesn't. They'll just see that they are the exact same color.
they don't have to all be matchy. come on, we're modern adults here. the idea of the bridesmaids matching was an antiquated tradition to draw evil spirits away from the bride. do we have evil spirits in the 21st century? no such thing. it's 1 thing if their dresses match but you can let them wear different shoes, not like anyone will notice or care. they don't even have to carry the same flowers or have their hair the same either. you love them each for the individuality right?
The shoes don't really show so it doesn't matter unless the dresses are tea length, and yes there are shoes that are similar with varying heights of heels. Go to a store that specializes in bridal accessories and just start looking for ideas. Good luck and God Bless. Don't stress over such silly little things like the bridesmaids shoes, life has so many more important issues in it than that.
I would look for SIMILAR shoes, they don't have to be exactly alike. However, if you are looking for shoes that are identical, then there are many simple shoes that you can go with that come in heels or flats....such as a black round or pointed toe. You would have to want very simple shoes though...
who cares if they wear different shoes. Let your bridesmaids be comfortable. Give them a color and tell them to stick to that, but they can be different. I don't see what the big deal about matching shoes is.
Eh, who's really paying that much attention? Just have them all wear the same color. Besides, which looks worse - a bridesmaid with a shoe that doesnt match, or one that's 8 feet tall?
well the shoes dont matter as long as they are all the same color and match
Mine are all just doing the same color. Some don't like heels while others do.
fine, as long as her's are the same color

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