My 86 year old grandfather married a 32 year old woman, now she is my grandmother?

My 86 year old grandfather married a 32 year old woman, is she my grandmother now?


I am 42 and I find weird and ridiculous to think that someone 10 years younger than me is my grandmother.


How should I call her?My 86 year old grandfather married a 32 year old woman, now she is my grandmother?
I'd call her by her first name. I doubt even she would be happy being called ';grandma'; or ';meemaw'; or something like that. My 86 year old grandfather married a 32 year old woman, now she is my grandmother?
She is not your grandmother. She is simply your grandfather's wife. Just how rich is the old dude? I don't blame him for wanting a young wife in his last years and Viagra makes it possible for him to service the woman BUT - I am 64 and I couldn't stand the thought of smooching with an old codger of 86. This woman is a gold-digger for sure so call her ';Grannie Goldie'; to let her know you're on to her - and then leave them be.
just call her by her name and i think your right that is very weird and i would not like calling someone who is ten years younger then me grandmother either and i don't think she would like being called grandmother either by the way she sounds like a gold digger to me just watch out for her and make sure your grandfather doesn't do something stupid
Haha..some answers are so funny..





wow,this is a record.





well,you can't blame your grandpa for wanting a younger women,i bet she's hot too...





if i were you,i would just call her first name,honestly,there's no 32 year old that wants to be call 'granny' unless you want to get under her skin.





sorry,but i think this is funny,but true.
Call her by her first name, since she is after all your step-grandmother. It is a bit weird--the age differences, but if she makes your grandfather happy just get along with her.
I would call her by her first name although yes, she would be considered your step-grandmother.





I find it weird, too. I bet she's a gold digger and is hoping to inherit all of your grandfather's money/belongings when he dies.
You should definitely not call her grandmother if you are not comfortable. I would just call her by her name. She cannot possibly get upset about that.
just call her by her first name. there is nothing you can do about your grandfathers decision so just try to be polite even if you are weirded out by it.
She is your step-grandmother. I would call her by her first name. I imagine she may be as uncomfortable about her relationship with you as you are with her.
technically, she is your step-grandmother





in today's blended family situations, i think the best thing to do is to ask her what she feels comfortable being called





she will appreciate your gesture
Call her by her name. When addressing who she is to people, tell them she is your grandfather's bride.





Hat's off to your Grandfather!
Is she thai or filipino ? Anyway I would call her by her name, after all she is just your grandfathers wife not your grandmother.
Ask her what she'd like to be called or ask your grandfather what you should call her.





No, she is not your grandmother.
Technically, she is your step-grandmother, I guess. You call her by her name, I'd imagine. How awkward.
just call her by name and have your grandpa know in advance that how you are feeling towards to her because of this odd sound marraige
IF she wants to marry an old man like that then by all means call her Granny.... If she gets freaked out so be it... IT's no freakier then her marrying your granddad



I think 'cheesecake' would be appropriate.
You are adult, so just call her by her name...What is your grandfather doing with a 32 years..
Oh, that is awesome. Call her ';Granny'; just to get under her skin.
By her name is definitely your best choice. (wow they are 54 years apart!) lol sorry just had to point out the obvious...
Gold-digger
Granny
you should respect her at the same time see the age factor and call her by her name if she is comfortable
thats sick and wrong just call her by her name i would if i was u thats wrong!!! x
Gold digger seems appropriate!!! lol
By her first name, honestly old people can be a disgrace!
By her name ?
Just call her from her first name...


That's what I do with my stepfather... I don't call him ';Dad';
First name only and Anna Nicole Smith much?