What questions should you have asked your husband before you got married?

The last time I saw my mom, she told me to ask a guy if he can cook. What should you have asked?What questions should you have asked your husband before you got married?
Um, let's see: 1. is either of your parents bi-polar nutcases? 2. any severe alcoholics or druggies? 3. are you addicted to porn? 4. are you addicted to pot? 5. are you interested in just 'getting into the US' by marriage 6. are your pot smoking friends more important to you than your kids? 7. Do you have a high school diploma and plans to go any further? 8. do you have a secret agenda, ie. think you can suck off my parents potential estate when they pass away? 9. do you like to gamble away thousands of dollars just because you 'feel' you are on some kind of magical winning streak while high with your buddies in Vegas? 10. do you feel it's your 'right' to scream and berate you wife anytime you don't get exactly what you think you're entitled to, like let's say, dinner the millisecond you walk in the door? 11. what do you plan do to if your d8ck decides not to work in 20 yrs? deny it and continue to try and flap it in your wifes face and expect that to be exciting for her and not think you should meet her needs, ever again?


OK, that's it for starters....did I miss anything, oh, I'm sure I have...20 yrs can do that to a person, ya know...What questions should you have asked your husband before you got married?
I disagree with '; how do you feel about your mom).. for most men, that can be true.. but my husbands mother forgot he exsisted and treated him like CRAP and he treats me/all of his other exes like GOLD! His grandmother on the other hand, is on a pedastal. He loves her, visits her, calls her, sends her flowers!.. Yes, how your man treats other woman is important.. but it's not just about the m om.. it's how he treats ALL other woman..





Anyway.. There was only one question I should of asked my man before marriage.I knew all my answers to most of them before we even got engaged. ( do you want kids, do you want me to stay home and raise them?, how do you feel about housework-is it equal or do you want me to stay home, do you want to control the money or is it equal?, do we have joint bank accounts or single?, do we put savings aside? if so, how much and how often, religious beliefts, goals, where do you want to retire?, ..ect.)


'; if something were to happen to me, and I had my living will state that I did not want to be put on life support, are you ok with letting me go'; and vice versa,


Bottom line, you won't be able to ask all the questions, but if you can both easily state that you've got very similar goals, morals and values, then a lot of your questions are answered for you. :)


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Have you been married before?


Do you have kids?


Do you want to get married someday?


Do you want to have kids someday?


How many kids do you want to have?


What kind of place do you want to live in? (Urban or Country)?


What do you think a marriage is a partnership (50/50) or are you old fashioned?
This is an interesting question, as we aren't married yet.





I know he can cook.





I guess the question I would ask is if he is willing to give up Guild Wars once we are married. If you want a more generic question then 'Do you do online gaming or gambling?';
U mean ask your fiance! If he has children that u dont know about! If he's legal! If he's really a man! If he really loves you! If he's not marrying u to cover up his gay side! If he takes a shower everyday! If he has any sexual fedishes or weird things he likes to do!
Do you have a filthy temper and a mental illness you're hiding, and did your parents hit each other? Would've been nice to know the answer to a, b and c was yes.
Can you make money? Definitely marry a guy who does not make enough money and don't like to work is a turn down. No love can survive on it. No way.
how u feel towards ur mom.


how they treat other women


how they treat their coworkers


do they celebrate the same religious holidays


money questions
What do you think of your mom? (His feelings toward his mom will show you much about his feelings toward women). If a man disrespects his mom, look out.
lol i agree with your mum :D


answer mine? a I cant fnd crap bout it on da internet!


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';Can you promise to love me and be faithful to me, in every single way, forever?'; If he says yes, then he's the one.
nothing... told her straight out that i was an ahole before she married me so that covered everything didn't it?
I already knew the answer to any questions I had or I wouldn't have married him
I should have asked are you gay or just bi - curious?
i should have asked my wife if she could cook.